13 happy things to be enjoyed in life
as i was thinking where life is taking me now that I’ve almost reached d “final” year of my engineering life , i realize there r few happy moments one has to feel n cherish d memories in our hearts ! so here goes … :) bit lengthy but keep reading ahead ! :)
1. sleeping wit open eyes :
That’s d very first privilege of student life: D for example u can u can accomplish d task of switching b/w to places at once wit out d aid f apparition or portkey ! ( you’ll understand better if you’ve read harry potter ) ! u can also master d act of sitting in d first bench n having an attentive expression when you’ve no idea wt d professor s talking about ! :P
which gives gr8 fun when u think back at d memories ! :D
2. Helping people :
Ok! to accomplish this u need not b an ngo worker or red cross member or wt ever ! jus look around u from where u r sitting at home , every inch kept clean involves a lot of effort form d queen of d house - your mom ! Just straighten out stuff in your room alone , you’ll probably c bliss when your mom smiles at u :):)
3.forgiving mistakes :
u n your friend have argued ! never before seen heated argument ! She shouts , u shout . . Obviously mayhem ensues ! Forgiving mistakes not only involves forgiving the other person but also forgiving yourself to save the guilt trip! just forgive yourself n her , hug her n make up with her ! i bet you’ ll b on cloud nine when she smiles back coz no one can reject a peace offering .
4. trust :
“Don’t tell anybody ok ?? , I’m telling u this coz i trust u ” this s d best thing u can hear from a person , it makes your day ! :) try respecting d person’s trust n learn to trust few people around u too :) ! it helps in keeping your heart light !!
5.falling in love n being love back :
according to me this d best thing that cud happen in one’s life :) ! u look at a person , bam-wham !! love flowers with in u :) ! d most cherished moment s to realize u r in love ! d moment where u b giddy wit happiness n fear ! :):)
d sky seems bluer , sun shines more brightly , suddenly u become more poetic too :P a smile from him s enough to make u lose your train of thought :P ! tell “I LOVE U ” As many times as possible to your self :)
u shoot up to 7th heaven when d person reciprocates :) n feel like hell when he doesn’t ! well … don’t bother about reciprocating , love s not a feeling that should make u sad , its a feeling which glows inside u n makes u d most happiest person !
cherish it !
8.ignoring people when u have to :
so being al goody-goody in life leads u no where put people who r mean to u in their right place ! shout if u have to , b harsh if u have to . . :P (that’s d best advise I’ve had in a while ) n above al sometimes its better to ignore worthless people rather than spoiling your mood over them , NOBODY S WORTH YOUR TEARS N SADNESS !
u can actually feel a sense u satisfaction when u do this ( mind u , I’ve had experience with this ) !
last week i read a quote which says - ” d smile s d most sexiest curve of ur body” ha ha :D
i actually feel its ABSOLUTELY RIGHT . A smile on your face does wonders more dan a makeup set cud do ! even when u r most tired n shabby looking , wear a smile which reaches to your eyes ! t can actually make your eyes glow n adds beauty to your personality !!
jus go on try t :) !
10. appreciation :
jus think back when s d last time u complimented your mom over the kolam she had done in d house entrance or about your dad’s new tie which makes him look handsome !! i bet you’ve been cooped up with your work n not looking at people around u !
that’s d most worst thing which will kill your relationship with people ! of course everybody has work n engagements ! so learn too see around our self ! world around us is jus like “facebook” lots of things to “comment”(as in complimenting about good stuff ) and “like” ! :D jus do it n c d difference in d way people respond to u ! :) u ll really feel a difference !
11. peace within :
d most clichéd saying - “peace doesn’t lie anywhere else t lies within u ” !! but its d truth ! :) DO NOT GIV D KEY OF YOUR HAPPINESS IN SOMEBODY’S HANDS ! Its after all yours , y should others b given d right to t :) ! have d remote control of your mood in your hands ! do not allow people to punch d wrong buttons in t !
12. positivity :
al above everything , stay positive :) it doesn’t matter if u r happy n stay negative ! doesn’t takes u anywhere ! :)
take things told to u in d right sense ! DO NOT READ B/W LINES N COMPLICATE THINGS FOR YOURSELF !! keep things simple !! :)
13. patience :
now people who r reading this part f my post , i should really congratulate u that u have patience to a certain extent to have read thru my post til d last ! :D:D
on a serious note , things u aspire fr do not jump into your hands when u want t ! u need to stay calm n approach t in d right way ! :) but let me warn u , being too much patient may lead to lethargy ! :P
b careful ! :)
finally understand that each moment in your life , is a once in a while opportunity ! do not waste t :)
face life wit a dazzling smile which diminishes d problems !!
smile as often as u can ! make people around u to smile too !!
life s short ,make t sweet !! :)
live in d sunshine ! swim in d sea ! drink d wild air :):) enjoy life to d maximum !! :)